We include products we think are useful for our readers. If you buy through links on this page, we may earn a small commission. Rubbing very hard on your penis — whether during sex or masturbation — can create enough heat to burn and scrape off skin. This is called a friction burn. It produces intense redness and discomfort.
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My boyfriend has had pain during urination and ejaculation. We have been only with each other for the past year, and neither of us have STDs. The information I have found on the Internet makes me believe he may have urethritis. My question is, can you cause damage to the urethra during oral sex?
Does my boyfriend have urethritis?
Before we get started let's clear one thing up: masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy for both men and women and comes with numerous physical and mental benefits. However, for a number of reasons some people might experience pain when they masturbate. We know around 75 per cent of women and people with vulvas will experience some pain during masturbation or sex in their lifetimes, but discomfort can happen to men, women and people of all genders. We spoke to Dr Earim Chaudry , medical director at Manual , Mia Sabat, sex therapist at Emjoy and Daniel Sher , clinical psychologist at Between Us premature ejaculation clinic , about the common causes of painful masturbation for both men and women to help you figure out what might be the reason for your discomfort:.
Sometimes I masturbate before I go to sleep at night. Usually nothing is wrong, but sometimes and this always occurs at night, I've found after I masturbate, a few minutes later I have to urinate. And when I do, it is usually very painful. The feeling doesn't pass either.