This is the first in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. The main areas you want to be aware of are the anus , which is the gateway to the pleasure zone, the anal canal , and the rectum. You have two anal sphincters: one near your opening, and one further up your cavity, which work together to help push fecal matter out. You have control over your external sphincter, but not the internal one. Men also have a prostate , which is located close to, but not inside of the rectum.
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Any ideas on how I can get past my fear of gloved butt penetration? In fact, the idea of dropping my pants to the floor, bending over and waiting for that finger gives me the shivers. That said, you do know that people with vaginas have had to drop their pants — or hike up their skirts — every year for decades to ensure the health of their woman parts. And besides, some people enjoy the feeling of something inserted into their bum…but I digress.
Warning: A Column on Butt Stuff
Everyone has their own sexual desires — but not everyone likes to talk about them, feeling ashamed or embarrassed, worried that they may be judged. But in reality, loads of us share the same sexual desires. One sexual desire, for many men, is for a finger to be inserted into the anus.
If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus.